Hello Ujwal Dai,
Earlier, I had written an open letter to Bibkesheel Nepali. I have said enough there. This letter is on something else. To start with,
Any relation, be it business, romantic, personal, social or political, ends up basically for either of the following reasons,
- The other side did something terrible or did something against your core principles and values: Let’s say person you are dating turned out to be a pedophile or a cheater. Or, let’s say holds a complete opposite principle or value that you totally distaste. In this case, no matter how much you adore that person or was dreaming to be with till the end, you just can’t. Above your emotions and desire, there comes the wall of irreconcilable difference on principles and values that you choose to end the relationship, even if that means being heartbroken and shattered emotionally. And, you call off the relationship.
- You never had as such interest or feeling for the person but you anyway got involved with and later you start feeling like you are better off the person: This is the typical case where you happen to be with a person without much of interest up on but situation just brought you together. The other side isn’t bad as such or wrong as such. Deep inside you know that but you just don’t want to be with the person, because your ideal partner is someone else. Now, your mind starts looking for flaws and faults in search of reasons to break up. In this process, dissatisfaction builds up. One day your dissatisfaction explodes and you call off the relationship. In such kind of break up, you don’t feel hurt, you don’t feel emotionally shattered. You actually feel relieved, set for new beginning in happy and motivated note.
I don’t know what happened in your case. Maybe it’s the case 1. Or maybe case 2, where you actually never liked Rabindra Mishra in first place but situation forced you to merge with. Whatever the reason be, I am sure you are happy now and are feeling relieved – set for new beginning in happy and motivated note. I wish you all the best. After all, one life, you deserve to be happy and deserve a chance to set your own path as it pleases you. Right or wrong, you will live per your karma accordingly. But then, there is a catch. Reason why I am writing this letter to you, because you are not just a person anymore. Like it or not, you have become an icon, you have become a leader leading many lives. You being wrong or you being lost means you messing with many lives and their times.
Right after you decided to form this new party of yours, I have seen the spark of joy and ray of hope in people who call you leader. I know you believe in creating leaders than leading them. I know you are not the only man to decide everything, but still, anyone can tell who is alpha in your tribe. You don’t have the luxury anymore to hide and pass down the ball to somebody else. You are the leader to those thousands of people singing and dancing and you must know what you are doing with them, their lives, their hopes, and many more things. Reason why I am writing this letter to you and not your party, or your tribe.
My hope is that you will consider the following points while forming your new party, so that you don’t look like a confused man forming a party gathering confused youths and at the end, every one lose.
Path and Lines
Activism is one thing and politics is whole different thing. You don’t need a political party to raise voice against something. Political party is born to represent a certain line, a certain group, a certain idea, that it likes to set in society and policy through the exercise of power. Boldly speaking, that is where the earlier Bibeksheel failed and the Mishra-led Sajha is failing. They claimed to be a political party but clueless about the line they take, group they represent, and idea they believe in. This new party of yours shall not be in that confused state. Your new party should define society, define family, define economy, define people, define rights, define responsibilities, define every little things that matter to people and their society, that matter to workers and their world, that matter to country and its allies. Your new party shall be clear about its political leaning, its political beliefs, its political ideologies. Those definitions and approaches will define you and your party. This time, please don’t come up with party which is clueless about path, clueless about beliefs, clueless about agendas; don’t come up with a party whose lines are set by social media trends. It’s not hard. Take your time, write and review hundreds of ideas and beliefs, keep rewriting, keep reviewing, we can wait, but when the manifesto is prepared, make sure it defines you and your party and world will know what you believe in, who you represent, and how you are different from rests, just like congress, just like communist, just like maoist, just like democrat, just like republic, or just like BJP.
Oracle of informed and wise
People you are surrounded by are the man you are. Intellects that likes to converse with you are the intellect you are. Quality of people who publicly endorse you tells the quality in you. Same applies to any organisation, be it business or political. While you forming your new party, please get some matured people with substantial quality on board, where members when talk they know their source of information, when leading they know where they are heading, when giving opinion, they know what they are talking. This new party of yours should not look like a youth organisation but a serious political party and it starts from the central committee. Take your time, screen thoroughly, train, test, re-test — let it take a time, we can wait, but when the committee is formed, be it an oracle of informed and wise and not a squad of shallow minds who only got to the committee by showing their date of birth and social media followers.
I am sure you know why you are doing whatever you are doing. But then, you knew then also why you formed a party but people didn’t really get your point then, nor they got your point when you merged and formed a new party, Bibeksheel Sajha. Ever wondered why? because you lacked the clarity on how. You wanted to make a party that has zero tolerance on corruption but you didn’t tell “HOW?” you wanted to make a party that supports and promotes entrepreneurship but you didn’t tell “HOW?” you wanted to make a party that fights against sluggish development and hindrance but you didn’t know “HOW?” You as an entrepreneur you must be aware of the fact that no matter how awesome your business concept is, if you don’t have an answer on how, all your why and what means just a fairy tale. Same applies in politics. If you only talk about problem but can’t propose convincing solution, you will only look like an activist. So this time while working on what kind of party you want to form, what are the things it likes to accomplish, why it is born in first place, please make sure you have HOW in every “what” and “why.” Take your time, read books, get mentors, get trained, do whatever you can to back your agendas and solutions, we can wait. But when you come back, come as Know-How man.
That’s it for now. If you get those three things right, I see you making a history. If not, I should harshly say “my thoughts and prayers go to all the people calling you leader, singing and dancing, sacrificing their time and energy and resource.”
After all, it’s you who lead them, it’s you who is forming this new party saying you know better. Timile nagare kasle, ahile nagare kahile?
This time, may you come up with a political party as it is supposed to be that no one will mistaken for NGO and/or activists.
“If you always do what you’ve always done, you always get what you’ve always gotten.”
– Jessie Potter
“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results”
– Albert Einstein
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How-to prevent Texting currently and carry on a romantic date
Texting tends to be a convenient and flirty way of getting to know the match throughout early phases of internet dating.
It can also be an instrument of torture. The main reason: the match may appear completely content to text permanently and do not get around to requesting on a night out together. Which Means months (and perhaps truly several months) of a seemingly countless exchange of “Good morning” and “Successful Tuesday!” and “Top three intimate comedies â¦ Go!”
Needless to say, you should seem fun and friendly and that means you perform along. And you’re hoping that your particular participation ultimately becomes a romantic date. “Clearly this can not keep going on and on,” you tell yourself. “He will should satisfy sooner or later, right?”
I’m here to share with you it can easily just on â away from wildest imagination. It’s not merely a source of short-term annoyance, either. This prolonged texting threatens to harm your own matchmaking life in 2 essential techniques:
1) could come to be so discouraged which you at some point lose interest. (that is a certain burn should you feel you’ve already used a lot of texting time.)
2) your own texting trade will develop a life of a unique, and you also chance building a false impression of whom you believe the match is actually, which doesn’t very measure in actual life.
Emailing, texting, and calling are resources to develop a fundamental rapport which means you feel comfortable enough to remain across a dining table from somebody and share a drink in real life.
If at all possible, you will text for a couple times â each week clothes â until among you indicates meeting.
However, some people just seem to love texting. (I’m talking as a woman who is fielded numerous grievances from women who wish follow old-fashioned matchmaking parts and become expected out-by a person.) “so why do men love texting plenty?” they ask.
Like the majority of females, You will find not a clue! Well, okay, I’m guessing there are three primary reasons:
1) they truly are hectic and keeping you exactly in danger
They’re remaining in touch since they are not available observe you now. However, they don’t need overlook the possibility they could want to see you in the future. Maybe they’re traveling or dealing with a family group, work or health circumstance and they aren’t prepared meet up. And also this most likely takes place more often than we want to imagine: they truly are online dating someone else and wish to find out how it is before preventing get in touch with entirely along with you.
2) They’re not certain they like you
They may be using texting to find out if there’s biochemistry. (it is an awful idea, I’m sure! People simply aren’t that great at texting, so it’s perhaps not a reasonable examination.) Besides, the real threat is you have inflamed and go flat and begin supplying terse responses â and kill down any possible relationship before it even starts.
3) they aren’t positive you would like them
Some guys tend to be insecure and are also pursuing enough good feedback attain adequate self-confidence up to now you. This does not add up, possibly. The reality that you answered the final 20 texts suggests you are curious, correct? Simply how much a lot more reassurance are you able to give?
But you’re not powerless!
Listed here are three techniques to end the texting hell:
1) fall ideas
The formula is easy: Flatter the texter. Recommend answering in true to life. Instance: “which is the concern about flicks. I would want to let you know exactly about the best movies over a beer.”
2) Set some borders
End the madness very early. Example: “I am not the majority of a texter, however it would-be enjoyable to reach know you. Lemme determine if you find attractive talking from the phone or conference up sometime.”
3) Ask them out
Usually, direct is ideal. You will keep your time and sanity. Example: “You seem like a lot of fun. Do you wish to get together IRL?”
What’s Special Today: November 10
Historically native to the Indian states of Bihar, eastern Uttar Pradesh and Jharkhand and the southern part of Nepal, Chhath is one of those festivals that transcends the caste system that exists in the society. According to the Hindu calendar, it is celebrated on the sixth day of the lunar month of Kartik. The Chhath Puja is a 4-day long ritual specially offered to the solar deity, Surya, to show thankfulness for good health, good life and to request the granting of some certain wishes.
Day 1: On the first day, the devotees after bathing clean their house and eat the food that is offered to the god to protect the mind from the vengeful tendency.
Day 2: On the second day, the devotees are not allowed to drink even a single drop of water but, in the evening, they eat kheer made up of jaggery, fruits.
Day 3: The evening of the third day which is also known as sandhya ‘arghya’ day where a bamboo basket is decorated with various puja materials, fruits, thekuwa, and laddus which are offered as an ‘argya’ to the Sun. Also, the Chhathi Maiya is worshipped.
Day 4: On the last day of Chhath puja again an arghya is offered to the Sun God but this time in the morning. The devotees go to the riverbank to offer arghya to the rising sun and break their fast and conclude their four-day long worship.
Happy Chhath to everyone! Don’t forget to enjoy some thekuwas!!
World Keratoconus Day:
Every year on November 10, World Keratoconus Day is celebrated to focus global attention on keratoconus and ectatic corneal disorders. The day was first celebrated by National Keratoconus Foundation.
Keratoconus is a disease that causes the cornea to become weak, leading to the thinning and stretching of the cornea, which may result in the loss of vision. Keratoconus is degeneration of the structure of the cornea. The shape of the cornea slowly changes from the normal round shape to a cone shape which affects the vision. The keratoconus mainly develops in teenagers and young adults and the disease keeps on growing, if not diagnosed in time.
The disease has no prevention and no treatment. With early diagnosis, the disease can be managed and further damage can be protected. In Nepal, the prevalence of Keratoconus is 1 in 2000 according to the recent journal. So, this world keratoconus day, make a commitment to visit an eye doctor once a year for the early diagnosis of keratoconus as well as other eye diseases.
KMAG Online Writing Workshop reading materials
Covers communication and types of writing. Please check the following articles.
Also, check out: How miscommunication happens (and how to avoid it)
Covers content management system/WordPress, and how to introduce yourself. Please check the following articles.
Covers the basics of expository writing and CV writing.
Covers persuasive writing.Please check the following articles.
Covers how to write research-based opinion writing.
Personal journal writing (my diary)
Figure of speech and rhetoric.
How to frame questions.